Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band; album cover by Jan Haworth and Peter Blake
I was born a little too late to be mesmerized by Elvis, the hip swinging King of Rock and Roll, who my older sister and her friends swooned over. I knew he made rock ‘n’ roll the international language of pop. I took note of the boys my sister hung out with on our corner, who combed their hair like him, and wore clothes that emulated his coolness, as they gyrated to his music on transister radios. But I didn’t “get” him. “I Aint Nothin’ but a Hound Dog” meant nothin’ to me.
You ain’t nothing but a hound dog
Been snoopin’ round my door
You can wag your tail
But I ain’t gonna feed you no more.
I screamed just like thousands of girls did when the four mop heads, known as The Beatles sang, I Wanna Hold Your Hand on The Ed Sullivan Show on February 9, 1964 (fifty-four years ago).
When John Lennon sang Girl on the Beatles 1965 album Rubber Soul, I was old enough to listen to the lyrics and be stirred by their meaning, and though sad melancholic love songs are just that, there is something in the lines in the last verse of that song, that I recognized as poetry.
Was she told when she was young
That pain would lead to pleasure?
Did she understand it when they said
That a man must break his back
To earn his day of leisure?
Will she still believe it when he’s dead?
Ah, girl, girl, girl
Ah, girl, girl
In the 50’s and early 60’s, there were television shows I watched as a kid, like Father Knows Best, in which we saw an American middle class family with mom, dad and their growing children in small city USA, http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0046600/mediaviewer/rm3014130432 These folks presented the stable family unit, and were exemplified by Jim Anderson, his wife Margaret and their three children, Betty, Bud and Kathy. My father didn’t always know best and my dad was no Jim Anderson. My mother was as far from Margaret Anderson as could be, with her broken English, and shopping cart. Though they tried to fast forward themselves into American culture, my parents were greenhorns, Jews who had been displaced, orphaned in the Shoah, and their identity was shaped by their history. My mom was always well dressed though. Best dressed. A tiny woman, she would shop at Alexanders, the local department store, and buy clothing that she would re-tailor to fit perfectly. As much as they dressed like the parents of my schoolmates, they were different.
That first time I saw the Beatles on the television in our living room, where the family would gather at 7pm on Sundays, I felt the stirring of what it meant to be a young American girl on the cusp of sexuality and identity. Wow. It was such a liberating feeling.
The Beatles broke up when it was no longer fun for them. How psychologically healthy.
Time shows us that the swinging pendulum who gave us John Lennon and Imagine, Give Peace a Chance, spawned a lunatic John Hinkley, who shot him dead outside of the Dakota, a building I would pass on trips to the upper west side of Manhattan. I remember images of Yoko Ono and John Lennon hosting their marriage from the their bed, saying if only the people who made war, would stay in bed instead, there would be peace in the world.
George Harrison wrote All Things Must Pass, and died at the age of 58 from lung cancer. He was a deeply spiritual man who often said, `Everything else can wait but the search for God cannot wait,’ and `love one another’. Ringo Starr (Sir Richard Starkey) is now 77 years old and still touring with his All Starr band. Paul McCartney (Sir James Paul McCartney) is happily remarried at 75 and still touring and making music. My favorite quote from him- And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.
A cloudburst doesn’t last all day
Seems my love is up
And has left you with no warning
But it’s not always going
To be this grey
All things must pass away
A mind can blow those clouds away
After all this my love is up
And must be leaving
But it’s not always going
To be this grey
All things must pass away
None of life’s strings can last
So I must be on my way
And face another day
In the morning it will fade away
Daylight is good
At arriving at the right time
But it’s not always going
To be this grey
All things must pass away
All things must pass
All things must pass away
I don’t want to forget the love. I don’t want to forget my husband, my children. My friends.
I don’t want to forget the Beatles.
Amazing history about the Beatles Minna-awesome post-congrats!
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Thank you Sam. I am glad that I can still share and teach. Thank you for letting me teach you things about music from my generation. The Beatles changed the world. When I was your age theirs was the music I loved. I also loved Laura Nyro. Have a listen to her https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JRf7_qa__F8
She died too young and was also very influential.
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Hi Minna, thanks for your reply and i am learning lots from you and so thrilled you can still teach-your most welcome and i love listening to music-i listen to the rolling stones and Bruce Springsteen. My favourtie songs by Bruce Springsteen is born in the USA, and Dancing in the Dark. My favourite songs of the rolling stones is waiting on a friend. Music from your generation is very fascinating. They sure did changed the world and in New Zealand there are some funky cars called v dub beatles and they are very funky and cute yet very tiny!I want a beatle when i can drive!Thanks for the link Minna-will listen to it later today. Blessings, Sam
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Oops meant v dub beatle😅😅
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Hi, I don’t want you to forget the Beatles either. Put the Beatles in your care plan for sure. Also, I think your desire to never go into an institution is very reasonable. I would love if it never had to happen ever and you did not have to fear it. I wish there was more support for everyone touched by this disease.
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Hi Nadine, Now I see that you are MP Sunshine. You are close to my age. Yours is such an entirely different experience. I see from your profile that your mom, who must be close to 90 (?) lives in your home. I hope that is still the case. I am 63 years old, and I have Alzheimer’s disease that is relatively fast progressing. I was a high functioning professor and teacher, artist, filmmaker and world traveler. Only 4 years ago I was presenting my film work at Jerusalem University. This is so very different from what your mama has. I did not slip into a slow decline. I fell off a cliff. I hope you can understand that, and understand the tragedy of this situation. So very different than late onset dementia, if that’s what your mom has. It actually sounds more like she is an old lady who is still quite lucid and functional (teaching classes at her senior center?!!! That doesn’t sound like Alzheimer’s).
Of course I would never want to go to an institution. There is no care plan. I wouldn’t know how to put together a care plan at this point. My husband does not go on Alzconnected and is winging it. One day follows the next and I am here is all I know.
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Hi Minna…”She loves you yeah yeah yeah”…as a nearly 64 for year old musician I can sooo relate to The Beatles. As a child when they came on the radio, their music was arresting. You couldn’t help but stop and listen to them.To me they were the band that changed and altered the course of music. I play alot of their music at my gigs and had the awesome pleasure of seeing Sir Paul McCartney in concert last December. Was the best concert I have been to and I have been to many. Yes even better than Toto!…Love your posts Minna and like you Barbara has stated she doesn’t want to be put in care. So were praying that God will sort things out.
Anyway Keep on rockin to the fab 4
Here’s a link to some snippets of my music. Sorry no Beatles though
http://acousticsoundsnz.com/#/listen-to-jack/4586895981
Keep Lookin Up
Jack
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Hi Jack, Glad you can relate to my post. Lucky that you got to see Paul McCartney live. I used to love to go to concerts. Last one was Neil Young at Jones Beach in 2014. Bob Dylan played outdoors in Hoboken in 2013. He was spent. I used to love Dylan.
Question: Does your wife travel with you?
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Hi Minna yes Barbara travels with me, especially to concerts. She loves them. Over the 45 years we’ve been married she has come with me to many concerts and a lot of percussion/drumming shows.
I saw Bob Dylan about 5 years ago. I really enjoyed him. Never been a big fan, but have huge admiration for his songwriting and his integrity to not get wrapped up in the commercialization of music. By that I mean he played what he wanted to play. Recorded what he wanted to and never bowed to the money making music machine. Anyway I could talk music all day. Its what and who I am. A musician. I couldn’t stop even if I tried
Take care and say hi to your husband.
Keep lookin Up
Jack
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